How to be Interesting
Ever wondered how to be interesting? You may think the answer is to bamboozal people with the latest news, an unknown fact, or being spontaneous.
The thing is, these are interesting but it does not make YOU interesting. Saying an amazing fact doesn't make people interested in you. So what makes a person truly interesting?
It's not giving worded messages to people but it's taking the other person's messages and showing interest in what they are saying.
If you want to be interesting to your children, be interested in them. If you want to be interesting to a client, show interest in their work and what they do. If you want to have interesting things at work, be interested.
We all love to talk about ourselves but when we take in what the other person is saying and show a true interest, they feel an attraction and interest in us.
Whenever we show interest in others, life becomes interesting for everyone.
The thing is, these are interesting but it does not make YOU interesting. Saying an amazing fact doesn't make people interested in you. So what makes a person truly interesting?
It's not giving worded messages to people but it's taking the other person's messages and showing interest in what they are saying.
If you want to be interesting to your children, be interested in them. If you want to be interesting to a client, show interest in their work and what they do. If you want to have interesting things at work, be interested.
We all love to talk about ourselves but when we take in what the other person is saying and show a true interest, they feel an attraction and interest in us.
Whenever we show interest in others, life becomes interesting for everyone.
posted by Joshua Uebergang at 12:20 AM
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1 Comments:
I red your post and wondered. Everything seems so incredible simple, yet is so rarely discovered in our daily walk. It seems each of us knows that theory, however we so often fall in its application. I think that mystery is very easy to explain. Until we didn?t recognize self in other, until we didn?t start to live according spiritual values, until we will judge the world by our own deeds, even the wisest theories will be just the nice projects. Yet, at the moment we lift up our eyes to the heaven and the fellowship with God will become our main goal, then all things will change to better. But it would be so not prior we will accept the supremacy of our spirituality.
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